{"id":211,"date":"2011-07-20T20:26:00","date_gmt":"2011-07-21T03:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladyjessop.com\/?p=211"},"modified":"2011-07-20T20:26:00","modified_gmt":"2011-07-21T03:26:00","slug":"30-days-of-truth-a-hero-that-let-you-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/ladyjessop.com\/?p=211","title":{"rendered":"30 Days of Truth: A Hero that Let You Down"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever read Simple Abundance?  It is a lifestyle book, directed at women and seriously?  It can be life changing.  I read it \"simple<\/a>about 15 years ago when it first came out.  Since it was a gift from my mother I assumed the book would be terribly preachy so I avoided it at first and gave it a home in the bathroom.  The one page chapters, one assigned for each day of the year seemed perfect for bathroom reading and one day I finally picked it up.  <\/p>\n

I still remember the day.  It was October 9th, and the title of the chapter was \u201cCoping with Stress.\u201d  It was 15 days before my dreaded 30th birthday and several months after I had ended a five year relationship<\/a>.  I was a giant ball of anxiety (thus the constipation) and totally needed to read that chapter.  <\/p>\n

From that day on I was sold.  I moved the book from the bathroom to my living room and read a chapter every morning while drinking my coffee.   I learned about the six principles of Simple Abundance: gratitude, simplicity, order, harmony, beauty and joy.  I learned how to weave these principles into my daily life and as promised I became a happier person.  It was a turning point.  And the author of the book, Sarah Ban Breathnach became my imaginary best friend.  <\/p>\n

Sarah got me to start a gratitude journal where I listed five things I was grateful for each day.  She taught me that focusing on what was lacking in my life would get me nowhere.  I had to accept my life circumstances, which at the time was a depressed single woman who lived alone in a crappy apartment in Hayward, and appreciate the fact that things could have been a lot worse.  She helped me experience joy in everyday activities like the first sip of coffee in the morning, walking to the Bart station and depositing my paycheck.  She helped me feel grateful for my friends and family.  Suddenly being single didn\u2019t seem all that bad.  And the crappy apartment\u2026well at least it was close to Bart and the rent was cheap.  And once the crack house across the street got fixed up by the new owner the neighborhood wasn\u2019t nearly as scary as before.  <\/p>\n

I loved Sarah and I loved the book she wrote.  I was thrilled when I found out she wrote another book until I saw the title.  Sarah\u2019s next book was called Something More<\/em>.  I was confused as hell.  Something More?  How could she?  What happened to being grateful for what you had?  What happened to accepting your circumstances?  <\/p>\n

My instincts where correct.  Something More<\/em> was not a very good book.  It seemed to be written by someone who was suddenly very unsatisfied with their life.  What was that all about?  I didn\u2019t even finish it.  I was so disappointed.  Sarah wrote subsequent books, all of which were equally disappointing and according to the Amazon reviews not just to me.  She also started a website.  A website you had to pay $75 a year to see!  What best-selling author makes her readers pay to join her website?  My hero, Sarah Ban Breathnach let me down.  <\/p>\n

\"moving<\/a>A few years later I picked up another one of Sarah\u2019s books.  This one was a memoir called Moving On<\/em>.  In it Sarah confessed that after the windfall success of Simple Abundance her marriage failed, she became quite the spendthrift and much of the money she made selling her books was gone.  In reading Moving On<\/em>, I got the feeling that Sarah became a little too focused on the Simple Abundance principle of beauty and threw the remaining five out the window.  It was understandable I suppose.  Even though it may be a secret fantasy for many of us, being an overnight success with instant piles of money is probably not the easiest thing in the world to deal with.  One minute you are a typical working mom and the next day people are recognizing you in the grocery store and Oprah is telling the world to read your books.  <\/p>\n

Having a hero let you down can be a good thing.  It helps remind us that we are all human, even our heroes.  I may have given up on Sarah as my imaginary BFF but I still haven\u2019t given up on her original book.  The wisdom in Simple Abundance is still as powerful as ever and I still read it 15 years later and also recommend it to anyone I can.  <\/p>\n

So if you haven\u2019t yet read Simple Abundance by Sarah Ban Breathnach, I highly recommend you do!  Just don\u2019t get attached to the author.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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